別居中でも再婚へむけて婚活はあり?

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離婚はしていなけど別居中だから、この先のためにも婚活を始めて再婚の準備をしたい!

という方もいると思います。しかし、別居中でありながら再婚相手をさがしたりと婚活を行うのはOKなのでしょうか?

後で困らないためにも、よく考慮しましょう。

別居中でまだ離婚手続きをしていない?婚活で再婚相手を探すのは可能?

別居しながら婚活中

すでに結婚生活が成り立たなくなり別居中なのであれば、精神的にはすでに独身かもしれません。そして、即座に次の出会い再婚したいと婚活を焦る方もいるかもしれません。ですが世間的に、そしてそもそも法律的には、まだ結婚中だという事を肝に銘じておかなければなりません。

もう愛情なんてどちらにもない、と感じているかもしれませんが、パートナーの気持ちは本人に聞かなければ分かりません。「とりあえず」で婚活に着手して「(気持ちの上で)再婚したい」と考えて、新しい相手が見つかってからトラブルになっては、その相手に対してこの上なく無礼です。

 

別居しながら婚活するために気を付けておきたいポイント

別居中

どうしても別居しながら婚活したい方は最低限これだけは気を付けておきましょう。いかにポイントを挙げてみました。

icon-point2-1-r 婚活は今パートナーの許可を得てから!
結婚しつつ新たな出会いを見つけたいのであれば、まずは今のパートナーから明確な許可を出してもらう必要があります。黙って婚活してしまうと、実際の離婚のときに不利になっても文句は言えません。

普通に考えれば、気持ちが離れているわけですから、別居中であれば離婚するのも比較的簡単なはずです。後回しせずに自分から離婚を申し込み、全てを清算してから「再婚したい」という願いを叶える方向に向かってください。その方が精神的に楽です。

icon-point2-2-r 別居中の婚活相談
別居中でもなんとかして婚活を行いたいのであれば、婚活業者を訪れた時に別居中であるという事情を伝えましょう。別居中である事を分かってもらえれば、業者によってはそのような方向けのデータを見せてくれる事もあります。

ただ、離婚はしていないのですから、相手を紹介してくれるケースはほぼありません。立場を逆転してみれば分かりますが「素敵な人だな」と思った相手が、まだ結婚しているというのは誰でも落ち込むものです。婚活業者も顧客をそのような気分にさせたくはないのです。

別居中で離婚に向けて動いている間にもとにかく婚活したい、とにかく素敵な人を見つけたい、という気持ちが強くても、友達同士の合コンに参加する程度でとどめておきましょう。そのときも必ず「まだ結婚していて別居中である」という事は明言しておくのが礼儀です。後からそれを知られると嫌われる原因になりますし、婚活業者の種類によっては違約金を支払わなければならなくなる事もあります。別居中の婚活では、石橋を叩いて渡りましょう!

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